Question by Destiny: My grandma passed 4 years ago. Why do I feel this way?
My grandma passed away September 7th 2007, she was like my mother, we were best friends. Everytime I think about her I cry, she passed away from cancer, she was in the hospital a lot of morphine, the day that I was goin back home i had told her okay momom im goin to school tomorrow see you soon, right in the morning when i was about to go to school, she had passed, so i said home i couldnt take the pressure, they didnt want me to stay in the hospital that night.

Well what I am trying to say is when i cry about her, my head gets heavy with a head ache, and my heart feel pressured and my back starts to hurt, i never ever feel like this when I am crying, I only feel like this when I cry about her. Could this be a sign that she is trying to get to me and to try comforting me, I wish I could take to a medium.

Best answer:

Answer by Sahmir
No when a person passes they aren’t present in our world anymore there’s no way they can contact you or have any effect on you.

It’s just stress.

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