Question by Cerise Delaney: when going through a divorce, did u sumtimes feel upset + cry about losing the other person,even though…?
…even though it was your choice to end it?
when there has been 2 years of trying to fix the relationship, but nothing works, and there is no happiness between us, i have decided i cannot do it anymore.. but it upsets me that it will be over, even though i know deep down i want it to be over, i can see a better life without my spouse.

if i am getting upset does this mean i should stay?
im so confused

Best answer:

Answer by M1NA
if things can be worked out then sit down, talk, get some help and if it works great if it doesnt at least you gave it a go and you can move on knowing that you did what you could. . there are problems n every relationship, if you love someone you should be able to overcome them. divorce is a easy way out

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