Question by Bloody Mary: Should we or shouldn’t we go to couples’ counseling in this situation?
My husband and I are separated. He had an emotional affair with a co-worker. He is trying to “get over” being “in-love” w/her. He refuses to sit down and talk things out, gets mad, and walks out when I try. He has decided that he would be willing to go to couples’ counseling to talk in a “safe” environment. He wants to go to see if our marriage is salvageable, not because he is committed to me or us (yes, he has made this clear). I can’t bare being around him w/o trying to discuss our issues. It drives me crazy and he ends up mad, saying that I’m dashing any hope of reconciliation because of my “hammering” him. This is always crushing and I have tried very hard to stop bringing things up. Considering all of this and my increasing frustration, should we even bother with counseling? I am and continue to be so hurt. He is acting like an adolescent as well – on myspace he befriends very young (he’s 45) women, uses sexual inuendo openly, making it private from me off and on.

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Answer by yesseree
yes, yes, yes! Go to counseling asap. It could help.

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