My Mother Is a Bitch?
Question by LAGrrl: My mother is a Bitch?
My mother is a bitch. A few days ago, my mother told me a story about my niece. She said my niece was going on the internet looking for “sugardaddys” to sell her body to. This concerned me a lot. My niece was raped a few years ago, has two children out of wedlock, never knew her father, mother abused her, left home at 17…. she has issues. My mother also told me my niece was dancing naked in a “gentleman’s club.” I asked my mother if she heard of something called an “intervention,” and began discussing other ways we could help my niece.
“Let’s get her some counseling.” I said
“She doesn’t want it.” my mother said
“Usually if someone is selling their body, and they tell their grandmother about it, it is a cry for help. I think she wants help, and this is her way of asking.” I said.
We went back and forth for a while until I asked her if she cared about my niece. I said that as family, we should care about her and try to help her when she is in trouble.
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My mother finally said, “well she isn’t my child. I don’t have to do anything. Why don’t you talk to her?”
“Fine, I’m going to her house to talk to her now.” I said
“Wait, don’t do that. I lied. Your niece isn’t working in a gentleman’s club, I made it up to see what you would say.”
“Why would you do that?
“Just to see what you would do. You always get upset. You’re so funny!”
“But when you tell me that my niece is prostituting herself, how do you want me to react? And why would you make something like that up?” No answer. I stormed out of the house.
My mother is always doing things like this, it seems she takes pleasure in seeing me get upset. I feel stupid sometimes because I know her little games, and I know how not to fall into the trap. But she keeps catching me off guard. My mother is not someone you can trust, and she isn’t easy to love. But when she plays these little games, I don’t realise it is a trap until its too late.
(Cont.)
So here are my questions:
I will be moving to LA in a few weeks, so I just cut off all contact from my mother? Since she never admits when she is wrong, will never change, or come to therapy with me (I have tried to get her to do these things for years). Should I give her my phone number, but only tell her to call if it is extremely important or life threatening?
Should I continue to have a relationship with her? But learn ways to deal with her? What should I do?
PLEASE EMAIL ME if you have serious suggestions about what I should do. I think my mother is emotionally abusive and I could use some support.
Best answer:
Answer by lesley w
sounds like she dont every things in life let her ..it a very sad sad story… my concern is the kids , hope they are in care of welfARE
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