Question by andrea H: How can I discipline my one year old?
My one year son is my life! I love him to death. Me and my Fiance’ are having a bit of a issue. He Hits, Bites, Pinches, Kicks, Bangs his head up against the wall/floor/whatever if he doesn’t get his way. Maybe we have spoiled him too much? I dont know. He is a complete angel the other half the time. This is getting absolutely out of control. Mom’s please give me advice. Preferably those who have been in this situation. Help!!

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Answer by brittanies
Kids can be very frustrating to discipline, especially so young because they are having such a hard time communicating.
As horrible as it sounds, my daughter had bit me once or twice when she was about one. I bit her back (very lightly, just to show her it hurts) and she stopped doing it. He may not understand that some of the things he’s doing are hurtful to others. I’m not saying hit him anytime he hits you, it’s just one tactic then can help sometimes.

I have [tried] staying calm and relaxed while my daughter has her fits. It is very hard to do, but by not giving in to the chaos it seems to help a bit. Don’t acknowledge the fact that he’s having a tantrum, just try to redirect his focus. I know it’s easier said then done, I have a very hard time with it sometimes, but it seems to be the best method that’s worked out of anything else I’ve tried.

Good luck, I hope this phase doesn’t last too long for you!

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