Question by Paul: Help me out please and give me advice.?
My grandma just dies last night and I am depressed bad. I am suppose to go to Basic trining in 3 weeks for the army but do not think I am going to be able to go to it. Do you think I should go or try to get it postponed. I dodnt think she would die this soon. Can I even get it postponed? I asked my family and they said I should just go in but I really dont know if i can so soon. What do any of yall out there think?

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Answer by Oliver
I think by the sound of it, you are still upset by the fact your grandmother died… Anyone would be.

In my personal opinion, i believe that you should stay home with your family, and that you should be there at this time of need. Sometimes the people you’re closest to are more important than a career, or doing a bit of work.

To be honest, i have no idea whether you can get it postponed, but it think hopefully the army would understand about your incident.

It still up to you, but i would suggest being there fro your family, and helping out wherever you can around the house ect… Your parents only said you should go as they probably wanted to support you.

Sorry to hear about your grandma, and i hope everything returns to normal soon 🙂

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