Question by Dream Lady?: cant be alone after- lost of a friend.?
i had a very close friend of mine pass away one week ago. It hurts me so bad , firstly we shared alot of time together, he was helping me with spirtural guidance, and with life. I saw him on the last day he was alive.. and i told him i would be back to visit him @ hospital.. but i didnt come back for something had came up. I was not expecting that to be last day i see him . I think thats what bother me the most .. feeling guilty. I know God came for him , but i just really wanted to say proper goodbyes. I was blessed to tell him , thanks a number of times for being such a great friend to me. However, since his passing i can not seem to be alone. I came to my moms house for to seek confront.. but of course it wont bring him back . I have to go back home, but not sure if i can @ this time. Is going back home something i can and should consider right now .. @ times i just feel like i want to be alone, but im afraid to go to sleep and have a bad dream .. or feel something in the house … ??

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Answer by the re – chosen one
We all have to remember a few things when a friend or family member passes away. First it’s not any ones fault that it was their time to go. Second I believe the one who passes on does not want us to remain sad about it and let us go into depression over it. They would want us to continue to live our lives as if they never died and continue to enjoy their presence but now in a different way. So it is hard to reverse this state of mind but it can be done. When you do both you and the one who passes will both be happy to once again laugh at life with each other instead of crying. So do you both a favor by turning your frown upside down and look forward to going on with your life.

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