Question by : Autistic brother has brought my family and I so much grief… :”C?
Hi. I have an autistic brother who is extremely advanced, but not qualified as Aspergers (sp?). Anyway, he is 5 years older then me ( I am 16) , can hold a decent conversation, and understand basic social concepts other then sarcasm and complex metaphors. Needless to say, he’s up there. Anyway, my problem is that lately he has been extremely ( for the past two years, actually. :/), I mean EXTREMELY difficult. He screams and yells at me and says horrible things to me when I try to reason with him. (“Brandon, can I watch T.V.?” “No, I’m watching it.” “Brandon, you’re not even looking at the screen and you have headphones on. Thats not fair, you can’t have both.” *Five minutes later..* “JUST SHUT YOUR MOUTH! JUST SHUT YOUR ******* MOUTH! BE QUIET, I SAID BE QUIET!!!!!!”

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A few days ago I was vacuuming my room. I looked over and noticed he was standing there, trying to say something. I couldn’t hear him, so I turned off the vacuum, he walked away, unplugged my vacuum, and was trying to act all sweet and innocent ( He does this thing were he will try and act like a sweet innocent 5 year old boy, makes his voice higher then it actually is and hopes people will treat him like he has worse of a disability then he really does. He picked up this behavior about a year and a half ago, and it makes me sick because he knows new people are even nicer to him and treat him more like a child, and less like an adult, if he acts like this.) and started using baby talk, saying “Hwere, I got this fwor you”, and threw the plug on my floor ( I have to plug the cord into the bathroom plug because it’s the closest one to my room that works ). Frustrated and confused, I stopped him from slamming the bathroom door on my face and tried to explain that he can’t do that, he knows better, and that I was using the plug first. My mom was watching and tried to explain this to him as well, because she was wondering why he was acting like this too.

He ended up screaming bloody murder into my face and telling me to “GET OUT! I NEED TO SHOWER!”, while proceeding to press all his weight on the door, and squish my foot between the door and the doorframe. (We were so confused, he never acted this unreasonable.)

Anyways, short and sweet, he’s horribly mean to me, incredibly disrespectful to my mother (Oh my God, you would NOT believe the things he has said to her…), and then puts on an act in front of my Dad when he sees him ( Parents are divorced, see them on weekends ) like he’s a sweet innocent baby, because he knows my Dad is the discipline figure. ( Even though my mom tries desperately to be disciplinary ).

We can’t do anything with him because he picks fights over the most ridiculous things that would never have bothered him in the past, and he is so ruthlessly disrespectful to my parents in public, and cruel to me. I hate him, but I love him, I’m desperate as to know what to do. At this rate, I can’t wait for him to be taken to a institution where they house mentally challenged people.
Sorry, I forgot to mention that my Dad doesn’t live in the safest off neighborhoods (Even though he is a D.E.A agent, but that also means he has a very busy schedule. My brother can take care of himself for short periods of time ( But not be left alone for days at a time, because then he’ll just eat pizza and shitty food, no veggies or nutrition. :/ )
My Dad also has no internet, and since he pays so much child support, has a VERY humble and extremely simple home. The only forms of entertainment are the T.V. and xbox ( mine for when I visit). He has no movies which my brother would find entertaining.

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Answer by Granny 1
Maybe Dad should have him live with him.

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