Question by back on planet marszzz: Can someone offer a shoulder to lean on or some advice?
So this year has already started off messed up. My younger sister tried to kill herself. I dropped out of college. I no longer have a job. I live on my own in a place far away from family or friends. I know a few people in this town but I am very selective because I want to be. My boyfriend of 2 years lives even further away. Now one of my roomates left and in her places is a crazy old woman who makes me feel so unsafe to leave my room. I do not usually complain or let things get me down but right now at this moment I am tired of being strong. I feel very weak and all I want to do is cry. I am planning to move out of this apt hopefully transfering into a 1bdrm. I have some money saved up and my boyfriend will help me. In my heart I want to move back with my family but maybe if I didn’t feel so isolated I would feel better. I do not know. Any sounds of advice?
I have already begun to seek help. I am speaking with a school counselor. It helps when I talk to her. Oh and this month makes 4 years of the passing of my older brother…I feel so tired…

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Answer by G.J.
you are passing for hard times, but please don’t give up, you should be stronger than ever, you should talk with your sister and talk with her about your feelings, you should be so close to your family, the family is the most beautiful thing in the world, you need of some friends, people that can make you feel good and strong, you should transfer to a bedroom if you want to, you feel so weak but you are not weak, you are a woman and I know about some hardworking women, be stronger stronger, take care

I am so sorry about the loss of your brother, I am glad to hear that you´re seeking for help it´s a big step, keep working on your feelings, you need the support for other people, for example friends they can really help you.. you need someone that can give you love, your family, friends.. Take care 🙂

Take a time to relax, it´s a challenge for you, it´s an oportunity to become stronger and the best person in the world
I lost my grandfather 4 years ago, he was like a father for me, but I still feeling his energy in the air, with the support of my family now I am alive, I am doing my life my own way keep pounding

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