Question by Christine H: I am not sure what to anymore…I love him but i have no idea how much more I can take?
My husband and I have been married for just over two years. He is in the military and this is the 3rd deployment we have been through since we got together. It seems like whenever he is gone, all he does is bring me down. He insults me, blames me for everything, tells me I am nothing but a Bitch and that I am useless. When he came back from Afghanistan, he was really bad. I’m nearly positive he suffers from PTSD, but he refuses counseling. Every time something doesn’t go his way, he screams divorce. He has been gone just over two months now and has spent over two grand with no explanation. I am having trouble paying my bills. I already moved everything to an account with just my name but I am starting to lose faith in myself as a person. I have already gone through a command ordered psychological evaluation (I am a reserving) because he finally caused me to have a breakdown. I am pregnant and already nearly lost the baby twice. I live him so much and I don’t want to leave him because of our 19 month old, who address her daddy. Please someone help. I am navy and so is he if that helps with suggestions.

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Answer by MOC
Hunnie, there’s so much here i don’t know where to start, and i’m likely to make a mistake. I usually get really annoyed at those people who say “get some counselling”, but with so many issues to unpick and deal with i’d like to suggest a counsellor who can sort through all of this for you and make sensible suggestions.

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