Question by divinemadness: Am I going crazy? Why does my boyfriend make me feel this way, whats happening to us??
I think im losing my mind. We’ve been together for over 5 years, lived together for 4. Im losing my darn mind. Its like anymore he makes me feel like everything I do is wrong. And that when he asks to jump, i should say how high. thats how i feel. but then i tell him this and he says i act that way towards him, that i make him feel like hes wrong about everything and that im better than him, he says I put total fault about everything on him, but i feel its the other way around…he says i blame him for stuff and put myself above him..when I feel that i dont, i look at us as equals, and do everything he asks of me. Im very confused and not sure what to say or do, so i just said u know what ur right im wrong, and thats the end of it. i dont know what to do??? what is happening here? he says hes changed for me and i havent changed for him…but i have…i feel i have…i dont know whats going on…im so confused, i feel like im losing my mind..is he right? am i the bad guy???

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Answer by Sazza
You shouldnt feel like that its not right. ur not his puppy. Youre his gf and u need to make it clear that u dont want him to treat u that way. Talk to him tell him that youll leave him if he doesnt start acting different. If he truly loves you he will stop. No sensible girl would put up with that. he wont stand a chance without u if u dump him he’ll b crawling bac 2 u.

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